Sunday, March 8, 2009

The More It Changes...


6 comments:

Σφιγξ said...

My body language betrays a subtle fact--the harder I push away, the stronger the attraction.

Σφιγξ said...


I do not think this is the case. I saw the girl pictured a few years ago, with her four children and one in situ, after she married John, a pediatrician, like her father. I do not envy her life. We briefly recognized each other, and then left.


I had a psych patient recovering from an aortic aneurysm repair yesterday. It made me realize that he was a product of abuse. Coming into the room, he shuddered and screamed defensively about being abused; and he was likely sexually abused as a child, and then mishandled by abusive caregivers in the state psych hospital.

For two weeks, everyone has been afraid to go in this man's room, and the nursing supervisor has rounded every shift to ask if he has been disruptive.
I asked Aaron if he was ready to get his drains out, clean up and getting ready to leave tomorrow, and with mild protest, he did.

It reminded me of one of my favorite Cronenberg films (2002), Spider, about finding the panes of plate glass, which are eventually brought back by the residents. They are not hopeless; otherwise, they would have used the glass on themselves.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=azNAno-DL0M

Σφιγξ said...

https://www.wikiart.org/en/peter-doig

https://friendshipphl.bandcamp.com/track/free-association

Σφιγξ said...

https://www.artsy.net/artwork/peter-doig-man-in-waterfall-wow-project-beach-towel

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xB_fN-Ghb2w

Σφιγξ said...

"And on good nights, trading our fixations
A couple unwitting agents
In a million combinations"

Σφιγξ said...

"There is no human being who is not tested by Hashem. The rich man is tested by how he treats the pauper, the poor man with his poverty, the wise man with [how he uses his] wisdom, the one who suffers with his pain, the businessman with his integrity and the craftsman with his specialty."

Pele Yoeitz, "Nisayon" (1824)